Many times you will hear people complaining of being tired. Even if you’re getting the amount of sleep you should get. If that’ s you the “perpetually tired” chick then that is a sign of being in resistance.
Consider resistance like this.. it’s a measurement of difficulty. The more resistant something is the harder it is to do or to accomplish. So when your life is “resistant” meaning you are not walking in your purpose, it is difficult to just exist. Make sense?
“You have the same 24 hours in a day as Beyonce.”
The statement on the image above was one of 2016 most popular memes. There are mugs and t-shirts with the phrase as well. Beyonce love her or hate her you gotta respect the hustle.
The woman has a discipline & focus to get things done. Mere mortals like us are wondering how in the world does she get so much done?
And if you think it is because she is rich I disagree because she was not always that way and still had a grueling schedule of practice and rehearsals as a child and teen.. She is NOT in resistance pure & simple.
Now I stayed in resistance for a LONG TIME it was all I could do keep my eyes open. It took all my energy to put on fake smiles for patients and their families at the hospital and do my work each day.. Fast forward to today most of my friends are like “Dude when do you sleep?” … Total energy shift! I am so excited most days I’m like a child and have to force myself to go to bed lol!
So here are 3 things you can do to have make a big energy shift in your life as well..
*Find your purpose– Living with no purpose is so draining. Knowing what you are called to do and going after it creates your “why” and gives you energy. When you aren’t walking in your purpose it’s like running up a hill with heavy luggage on your back.. you will ALWAYS be tired.
*Dump energy vampires– These are the relationships/friendships that drain you. There is a reason one of Beyonce’s besties is Serena Williams. Someone who is an energetical match for you will help you succeed much faster and replenish where others who aren’t will drain you. Cut them loose.
Yes it will be sad.
Yes it will hurt.
But so does remaining stuck. So the homegirl who is always calling to complain & gossip let her go. The man who never appreciates you & doesn’t treat you well.. let him get to stepping. PROTECT YOUR PEACE! Conserve your energy!
Don’t allow energy vampires to bleed you dry. Most of the time because they don’t know their purpose yet, they make it their unstated mission to take you off yours. #byefelicia #byefelipe Let them go!
And if you’re in a situation where you can’t part ways decide to make yourself UNAVAILABLE to argue or entertain conversation with no purpose. Attention is a form of currency so stop paying it to those who don’t deserve it. Eventually they will get the point & find another source of supply for their ego requirements.
*Learn which opportunities are best for you-At any given moment we are flooded with opportunities to do things. How do you know which one is right? Someone recently sent me a meme saying that fear is temporary but regret is forever.
I call BS on that because regret is for those who can’t make decisions or change course by quitting before a breakthrough. I regret nothing in my life!
Every heart ache, heart break, & lesson made me who I am today and for that I am grateful not in regret…
There will always be obstacles to overcome for ANY opportunity with the potential for great reward. So that is how you choose the right one for yourself.
Look at the obstacles, problems, issues involved & if the reward is greater than the cost then it is worth it to go through them. If not then let it pass.
Sometimes resistance is due to being lazy & comfortable for so long that it will make you give up on things and people too early so be careful!
Energy management is so important as an entrepreneur it truly effects your revenue because if you come in with half ass effort you will get half ass results..
Your audience can also pick up when you are in resistance because something just feels “off” and remember you attract what you are so if you are in resistance you will attract resistant clients, partners, friends, etc.. So please make sure to tidy up these energy leaks because we have work to do!
Live by design not by default..
P.S. One of the things Beyonce is a beast at is presentations. Anything she does is an experience. That is because she presents well. I am doing a FREE 5 day#PerfectPresenter challenge starting Feb 6th where we will create your next sales presentation for your product or service so it sells with ease not sleaze. Sign up here indirapierrot.com/challenge